OBSERVATIONS OF SEXUAL BODY LANGUAGE
demonstrate that there are very specific stages of physical closeness experienced by men and women as they grow more sexual with each other:
HAND TO HAND
Hands are usually the first points of touch at the early stages of a relationship. Holding a friend’s hand is the least “threatening” type of physical contact.
ARM TO ARM
There is a natural progression from holding hands to touching each other’s arms and embracing. Such touch brings you much closer together, both physically and emotionally.
MOUTH TO MOUTH
People today often kiss out of friendship. This makes it easier to venture toward the first serious kiss, since such intimate touch feels relatively secure.
MOUTH TO FACE
Once the ice has been broken, the lover then feels free to move on to other erotic parts of the face, neck, and shoulders, denoting a buildup of trust and sexual interest.
HAND TO HEAD
When men and women begin to hold or manipulate parts of another person’s body, this shows a growing sense of freedom and power.
HAND TO BODY
Stroking and caressing the body is a natural progression from stroking the face, made possible by an increased sense of intimacy and trust.
MOUTH TO BREAST
There’s no mistaking this body language. The breasts are a prime sexual organ, and kissing or sucking here denotes acceptance of sexuality and possible arousal.
HAND TO GENITALS
Genital touch signifies serious sexual intent. This means it needs to be sensitively timed in order to be fully acceptable to the other person.
GENITALS TO GENITALS
This is the ultimate point of the touch cycle, denoting trust and openness. Intercourse is probably the prime way of giving and receiving love in stable, long-term relationships.
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